ClumsySmurf skrev 2023-07-18 23:47:13 följande:
#601Jag tror att det behövs lagstiftning för att skapa mer jämställdhet, som med föräldraförsäkringen. Inget tvång, men färre valmöjligheter.
Om en incelkvinna vill ändra lagen för att få sitta på min kuk, är det då långsökt att tänka "din jävla narcissist"?
What Do Female Incels Really Want? - The Atlantic
In some ways, this logic is even more uncomfortable than the original incel logic. In
a 2021 essay, the feminist theorist Jilly Boyce Kay argued that it?s not just incels who assume that ?any woman can get sex from men.? This is a
widespread cultural assumption. Women have long been understood to hold sexual capital; in modern dating culture, they?re expected to wield it. Femcels complicate that story. They feel the same sense of ?humiliation and exclusion? that incels do, but they react to those feelings differently. "Incel discourse tends to project anger outward onto society in a hatred of women," Kay told me when we spoke recently. That anger is expressed radically: through threats of violence, or through bizarre (though, arguably, imaginative) calls for the government to
?redistribute? sex.
www.theatlantic.com/technology/archive/2022/05/femcel-meaning-female-incel-reddit/629836/Incelkvinnor verkar inte vara jävla narcissister som vill att staten ska lägga sej i vem som ska knulla vem.
What Do Female Incels Really Want? - The Atlantic
They were finding the
modern dating landscape-the image-based apps, the commodified dating "market," the illusory "freedom" to be found in hookup culture-to be unnavigable, and they talked about taking a "pink pill," and opening their eyes to the reality that society was misogynistic and "lookist." They could be funny-in 2019, a commenter repeated a pretty friend?s suggestion that nobody really needs to wear makeup, adding five heart-eye emoji and a link to the
joke subreddit r/thanksimcured. They could be kind of mean-like male incels, they mocked lucky, beautiful women, whom they called "Stacys." Mostly, they wrote about being sad. "Normies can't comprehend real loneliness," an early post begins. ?Guys don?t treat ugly girls like people,? reads another.
[...]
The larger
Vindicta subreddit was created as a space for femcels to discuss ?looksmaxxing," or improving their physical appearance with a combination of "soft" (makeup) and ?hard? (plastic surgery) approaches, but has recently seen a diluting influx of non-femcels looking for beauty advice and sometimes offering words of encouragement. (This has caused problems: "Reminder to femcels, people who LIE to you and tell you that ?you look fine the way you are' are NOT on your side," a moderator
wrote last year. "They BENEFIT from you remaining ugly and not fixing your looks because it makes them more attractive relative to you.")
[...]
Femcels, especially now, tend to find themselves on
identity-based forums that are fixated on biological-essentialist ideas of gender-"women are like this, men are like that," as Kay put it, more stagnant than revolutionary.
www.theatlantic.com/technology/archive/2022/05/femcel-meaning-female-incel-reddit/629836/(PDF) The Psychological Profile of INCELS (Involuntary Celibates) SPSP Sexuality Pre-conference
Study Sample
729 people responded to the survey
157 self-identified as incel
143 male incels (14 female)
Age: (M = 31.72, SD = 9.62)
Incel participant age: (M = 28.14, SD = 7.57)
Incel Mate Preferences
Result
As predicted, incels reported significantly lower minimum mate preferences (M = 69.53 SD = 24.86) than non-incels (M = 86.36, SD = 21.46), t(407) = -6.89, p < .001
Cognitive Distortions Around Female Mate Preferences
A one-way ANOVA comparing incels? and non-incels? perceptions of female mate-preferences with female participants? actual reported mate-preferences, revealed that incels significantly overestimated the importance of physical-attractiveness while underestimating the importance of intelligence, kindness and humour.
www.researchgate.net/publication/358706723_The_Psychological_Profile_of_INCELS_Involuntary_Celibates_SPSP_Sexuality_Pre-conferenceGäller det båda könen?
How Do Femcels and Incels Differ? - Psychology Today
Furthermore, we do not know the true reasons for the identifying as femcel. Are women who identify as femcels actually less physically attractive, or might their rejection be related to other factors such as (lack of) social skills,
shyness, body dysmorphia, negative experiences with men, or racial discrimination? Hopefully, new research will shed light on the psychology of femcels.
www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/the-modern-heart/202211/how-do-femcels-and-incels-differvet inte hur det är i sverige men om det finns både män och kvinnor som anser att de är för fula för att knulla så går de ju inte ut och knullar med varandra.
