Ex melting my phone

Hi My advice is that you save all texts she sends you. Write down time and date of all calls and what she wanted/said. If she says/writes " I will kill you" again I would inform her that that constitutes an illeagal threat and can result in unpleasentness if reported to the police, and you'd rather she would stop threatening you because you don't want to have to report her. (Unless you infact do want to report her, but usually that tends to make further contact ..... uncomfortable?!) Take the initiativ to go to "familjerätten". Contact the social services and they will give you the number. Familjerätten can help you and your ex to put an agreement on paper on how your contact should be regulated. Then you can refer to this agreement if she starts to give you grief in the future. A parent that harasses the kids/other parent or make it difficult for the kids to have contact with the other parent can, if things get out of hand, ultimately loose custody of the kids. Also in a couple of years this behaviour will ultimately come back and bite her in the a.. because kids hear and remembers more than some parents think they do and if she verbaly abuses you now, there is a good chance they will recent her later in life for it. She should avoid that... (I've heard my mom badmouth my dad since I was 5 and I still recent her 40 yrs later, and they are not even divorced!) What you do with your kids on your time is none of her business as long as the kids are looked after, fed, loved and goes to school etc. You can travel where ever you like as long as your children has got valid passports and are returned to their mother as per agreement. Be nice, calm and very clear when you talk to her. Don't lower yourself to her level..ever. Good luck.